More and more women in their thirties come to me with problems related to relationships or the lack thereof. According to their accounts, they typically had two relationships in their lives, the first lasted six to eight years, the second took almost the same or more from their lives. They long for a family and a child, but there is no one to fulfill this desire with. Most of the time, they already knew at the beginning of the relationship that they didn’t want to spend their lives together, they don’t need children from each other, since they hardly have anything in common. They both expect different things from life, but they don’t tell each other that, they just live life side by side and both do what they want.